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Forms of play
Penis/anal penetration - For the man the main advantage of penetrating the anus with his penis is that the anus is not only very narrow, but also the circular muscle around it is much stronger. As a result he will feel much more sensation, compared to penetrating the relatively soft and receptive vagina. The vaginal contractions he feels only during the female orgasm is what he feels constantly while penetrating the anus. To the majority of those being analy penetrated the attraction is in two things: one being the "giving" of this to their partner and of course the stimulation itself.
Fingerplay and fisting - Stimulating the anus with fingers, although desirable all by itself, causes very relaxing feelings when done carefully, and is mainly foreplay to something else: either anal intercourse or anal fisting. If anal play is new to someone, they may have trouble relaxing the anal sphincter muscle. To break through this mostly mental block, they may require gentle massage and training to open up. (For information on fisting use the link provided later).
Toys - Toys are mainly used as devices to train the anus for further play. To avoid all sorts of unwanted mishaps, please only use specially designed toys (like butt plugs) for this purpose and not, for example, vibrators. Apart from this, vibrators and dildos are usually too stiff for the anus. Toys for anal play should be very flexible, made from latex or silicone (which is a different type of silicone than used for plastic breast surgery).
Rimming - Rimming is stimulating the anus with your tongue. The technique can be compared to oral stimulation of the vagina.
Enemas - An enema is technique where (usually) fluid is brought into the bowels to force them to expell their content. This may be used for various purposes - cleaning before fisting, as a punishment, humiliation, training and sexual arousal, all of course depending on your own preferences.
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