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Sexual satisfaction
Q: Lately my wife is saying I don't satisfy her sexually. Nothing's changed. I still give her all my love. What could the problem be?
A: The problem may be "nothing's changed". Sex, like everything in relationship, needs to grow and become more conscious. Just as we learn to communicate more effectively, cooperate more fully and grow in love and compassion for one another, we need to bring more awareness into our bedrooms. There are many books on this subject. One I can recommend is The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles and Caroline Muir. This easy to read book outlines exercises for deepening relationships, and bringing more intimacy and passion into our lives. You need to also sit down with your wife at a time where you both can talk without being interrupted. Let her know you love her and want to satisfy her. Ask her if she has some suggestions. Let yourself be open. With your mind open, new ideas may come to you. One wonderful possibility is to imagine you are both brand new to sex. Be like children playing. Let your wonder and curiosity lead. Try new things. Let your heart lead. Play. When sex becomes the same every time, it loses something. We must continue to explore and discover our sexuality so that wonderful aspect of our relationship can grow along with the rest.
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