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Old 03-24-2006, 06:22 AM
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Sex for the first time hurts!

It hurts like hell, that's what they say.......
They also say "no pain no gain"
So, should I do it?, I'm scared..........

Is this what you have in mind girls?
Don't worry, it's ok to be scared, I was scared once, but, after a few heavy Singapore Sling cocktails...................... hahahahahaha
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Old 03-24-2006, 07:41 AM
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Singapore Sling ROCKS!! wuhuuuuuuuuuu
My first time was also after Singapore Sling session
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Old 03-25-2006, 09:03 AM
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So one should describe abt 1st timers. how thay feel afterwards...and before doing sex.
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Old 04-03-2006, 01:01 PM
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I remember my first time
god that was years n years n years n years n years n years n years n years agooo

lol

can't remember the details, but i do remember it was in her parent's room, she wanted to do it there, so, what can i say, it's comfy there, bigger bed, better springs lol

i was so nervous, it was my first time too back then
and she wet the bed like nobody's business,
in fact, we had to dry it with her mum's hair dryer after the whole uuhhh ahhh yes! yes! session lol

god it's funny just thinking about it now
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Old 04-06-2006, 05:46 AM
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So its my time to decribe my first times.
I will say wht my GF feel like..

I still remember all the feeling and pain...which my gf and I felt.
we were around 18-19 yrs old...when we have urs First Times. We were viewing seeing BF.
So we deiced to have a One style the way they were having in BF.

we forget those are professional and we are First TImes....
we have tried differmet Angles..and we had felt sucha pain.
By GF was bleeding for a moment.

But it was a great exp.
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Old 04-10-2006, 11:29 AM
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first time and you're following what people do in films?
lol
thank god you guys made it all right,
and thank god you didn't follow everything you see in the BF lol
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Old 04-11-2006, 05:18 AM
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ya....
somehwre or the other u need information....
we havnt follow the samething.....but u can say we were inspired by it.
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Old 04-18-2006, 11:03 PM
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first time sex

like fellow member meny meny meny moons ago...

i was about 9 or 10.when i meet the local slut lol [woodbine lil]
she tought me lots got fond memeries of her..but it was like shaging dartford tunnel lol...but the first blow job wow

then i meet my first love,she was so shy and sweet.
after that seemed months and months to get into her knickers.was in reality about 4 weeks,we finaly had sex when i took it out there was blood everywhere thought she had cut me knob off...then i realised it was her
it scared the shit out of me i thought she was going to die.as she cryed and cryed did not know to run or what.so i just sat and cryed with her..
after that i did not have sex for about a year, untill somebody told me that was normal for a girl that has never had sex before..
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Old 04-20-2006, 09:12 PM
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first timers

Wow, okay that last story was a bit odd. I've never had sex. period. :x I've heard that it hurts from a lot of friends, but a part of me is thinking theres gotta be some way around that bit. Any clues?
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Old 04-21-2006, 09:17 AM
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lol

hhope1...........how old are you to be participating in this forum lol

ok, the hurting part, i can only say............no pain no gain i guess lol
you'll get over it real soon, and then, you'll start to enjoy it, don't worry my friend, as for the story about the lots of blodd and cried together........lol

that's one of the funniest i remember, but hey, it's sweet as hell that you didn't run away and cried with her lol

proud of you
*smooches*
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Old 05-03-2006, 10:03 AM
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ya....u are right...no pain ..no gain.

atleast for aal first times...if u want to gain...u must have pain.
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Old 05-14-2006, 08:40 PM
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???

Sex is something which involves no emotions, u r just doing it for the sake of that shagg no feelings, no passion, no desire so how can u expect SATISFACTION out of it.....

when u r making out with your gf, frnd or even with your wife u have some emotions..some feelings for that body which knows u knows ur feelings knows the way u wud luv to hav it knows that this is someone i trust n i luv n coz of that X factor i chose him/her as my partner n now is the the time when i can explore that covered area for which i was dying for the last so many days or weeks or months(depends upon ur trust factor)......so lemme give my best shot...

wat do u think now which one draws u to a satisfaction level.....

its nvr a pain if OTHER factors are there to cover the small pain of pleasure!
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Old 05-15-2006, 09:04 PM
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it does hurt...

yes, sex really hurts for the first time...

but for us people of the present generation, sex is just a thing we do..
well, for everyone's information it's not a thing to do, and it's not even a game...

sex is something that should be done with the blessing of the church...

but for us teenagers when we hear the word sex, it only means pleasure..

but what we don't know is, having premarital sex is not right...and it's not even safe...for girls that are 12-19 having sex isn't a good idea yet...beacuse it might affect the circulation or the flow of menstration...
don't you know that by having premarital sex at that age can cause cancer?...it might cause cancer about 50-75% out of 100...simply because the body isn't ready for such activity...

take it from me, because i've experienced it...and i still am...at this age of 14 i had premarital sex with my boyfriend eventhough i am aware of what might happen to me....i've engaged myself to premarital sex and now i'm suffering, because i'm experiencing severe bleeding of my sex organ...it's not menstration or even discharge...it's because i had premarital sex this early age...and it caused my body to have some changes that i'm not supposed to experience....

that's why before having sex, make sure that you are ready for what might happen...and you should face the consequences of what you've done....

that's it!...
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Old 09-18-2006, 08:32 AM
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Re: it does hurt...

what is sex.....i don't know ........
and i think ...... no body know ...... that what is it?......but !
one things that its a big reality of the world......and knows that person which involve in this ......problem..
but for the teenager i think it is a big problem......and the solution of this is .....................................i don't know...???
















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yes, sex really hurts for the first time...

but for us people of the present generation, sex is just a thing we do..
well, for everyone's information it's not a thing to do, and it's not even a game...

sex is something that should be done with the blessing of the church...

but for us teenagers when we hear the word sex, it only means pleasure..

but what we don't know is, having premarital sex is not right...and it's not even safe...for girls that are 12-19 having sex isn't a good idea yet...beacuse it might affect the circulation or the flow of menstration...
don't you know that by having premarital sex at that age can cause cancer?...it might cause cancer about 50-75% out of 100...simply because the body isn't ready for such activity...

take it from me, because i've experienced it...and i still am...at this age of 14 i had premarital sex with my boyfriend eventhough i am aware of what might happen to me....i've engaged myself to premarital sex and now i'm suffering, because i'm experiencing severe bleeding of my sex organ...it's not menstration or even discharge...it's because i had premarital sex this early age...and it caused my body to have some changes that i'm not supposed to experience....

that's why before having sex, make sure that you are ready for what might happen...and you should face the consequences of what you've done....

that's it!...
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Old 10-04-2006, 01:24 PM
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Wow SHESTINE u were only 14 huh....thats pretty young isnt it...im just wondering...did you think about whther you should or shouldnt do it at that time? or was it a spontaneous decision you just took?

Dont mean to ask you this to judge you by any standard but rather to get an insight into what you were thinking about.
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