How to help my fren...???

opieee · #1 (**permalink**) 09-08-2006, 03:21 AM

my fren is a moody person can u give me the solution how to help my fren from be a moody person again???please~! give me a solution :idea:

rockyroad · #2 (**permalink**) 09-08-2006, 05:32 AM

what do u mean?? u want him to not be moody again?? well, i dunno.. is that really his personality?? well, if u can understand him and accept for who he is.. u dont wanna change him to someone he is not... but then, u can always tell him that u hate it when he becomes moody.. right..

after all.. friends will understand[/quote]

opieee · #3 (**permalink**) 09-10-2006, 03:31 PM

u wrong my fren is gurl..... :P .....anyway thanx for all ur advices....

rockyroad · #4 (**permalink**) 09-11-2006, 05:34 AM

ok.. i stand corrected.. but hey, we always use he if we dont know the gender of the person we are talking about.. so thats why i use it...

hope to see u more here.. happy posting

opieee · #5 (**permalink**) 09-11-2006, 01:43 PM

thanx for everything~!!!!! :oops: :D

zzeell19shy1 · #6 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 02:00 AM

Hi!!!accepting as what she is the best way you can do...you cannot change directly the attitude of a certain person cos only God does. Well you can do your part by influencing her not to be moody at all times but you just have to accept being what she is, that's part of her inmost being...you can tell to her what you don't like and what you like but learned to accept the strength and weaknesses of your friend.

humpty · #7 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 03:53 PM

well said zzeell19shy1

totally agree with you on that,
opieee, listen to the words of wisdom from zzeell19shy1

supressedinsanity · #8 (**permalink**) 09-13-2006, 01:50 PM

Well people are moody when they are stressed out.
If thats the case you cant do much other than helping her find some destressing methods like meditation or relaxation or a new hobby.

Its quite eye opening how the nicest person can become into a moody mean machine under the right amounts of stress.

So tell us more about your problem and maybe we can help you out.

rockyroad · #9 (**permalink**) 09-14-2006, 03:25 AM

ahmmmm zzeel is right and so is supressedinsanity...lol sanity.. u always says the right word....

peachey · #10 (**permalink**) 09-17-2006, 04:12 PM

If it is a girl and she moody could be alot of thing..depending on the age of the person and what the home life is like. Things like this can effect them..
Suggestion try to find something that will help both of you when you are together..Make them laugh or just enjoy a moment with you. Let them experince the time with you that they do not have to be that way. And carefully find out if you can some of the source to the moody...Home life work school things like this and maybe you can help some...But find out from them what makes them happy and when you are together for a time make the time for them..