Treasure your good friends

ucancomenshare · #1 (**permalink**) 04-08-2006, 09:39 PM

this is to all those who are in frenship with any1 i don care ...but sometimes its that u get some1 and you just dont care ...u come here cause u have problems no 1 can give u a better solution than yourself... its you and u have to take decisions but still we all ask about opinions ....
i just wanted to say that very few people have good frends and if you are 1 of them treasure them do not just let them go .....and if u have bad frends kick their ass!!!!

hhope1 · #2 (**permalink**) 04-25-2006, 03:33 PM

I'm not sure I got it from your message but do you care about your friend in a more than friends way? He did propose so it leads me to think that the two of you are at least more involved than the average friends would be. If your current boyfriend is an egoist why not break it off with him and talk with your friend about making your relationship more involved and see where it goes? If you do think you have more involved feelings for your friend it might be worth a try.

ishymech · #3 (**permalink**) 04-29-2006, 04:17 PM

Hi folks, It's been 6 months i joined my 1st job as a software engg. I was pretty lonely in the begining till i met this girl. I knew all the time that she is in a relationship and have never had any issues with it as she is a good FRIEND of mine. A month back she started acting indifferently and started going to bad company, when i asked her ( as i am a good friend of hers) she just shrugged me off and we havent been talking much, just the occassional hi and smile ! yesterday was her b'day and she just ignored me totally ! i feel very bad and lonely ! any suggestions??!!

natalieme · #4 (**permalink**) 05-30-2006, 02:33 PM

As I can see 2 people are writing on the same block so i will give my opinion first to ucancomenshare and next to ishymech.

Well ucancomenshare I guess you have to ask yourself if you have feelings for that boy that proposed you. Hope1 is right if you think you prefer better that guy you can cut off the egoist boyfriend. But I guess better will be first to talk with your friend and ask him about his feelings about you and then you can say if you feel the same.

And for ishymech I think you can try to realize if that girl is worth your friendship when she ignores you. When she has a boyfriend maybe she assume you can disturb her current relationship but let her be the way she is, if she acts like shrugged you off then you can also not to show much attention and care. I am sure you can have much more close people around you that are not going to act silly when you ask them if you are friends and who will appreciate your friendship. Maybe I am wrong and she just had a bad mood and was not so polite with you but my advice is just to let the things as they are, if she hi you hi her back if she smiles, smile back, if she ask answer her in a short way and if she wants something from you she is going to come to you and to make claer why that was her attitude if not leave her do whatever, you can have better friends for sure.

ucancomenshare · #5 (**permalink**) 06-24-2006, 01:42 PM

well there r all kinda peeps ...like ppl who r good n remain good n peeps who just pretend m talking bout those ....n its not everytime u make a rite judgement n its not everytime u make a rong 1 /////so get my pt!!

sanuanu · #6 (**permalink**) 06-26-2006, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by marcus01

YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!.....a person is never your friend...if you don't have the vision to judge him/her...so the question..of kicking..doesn't arise at all

My friend it takes time to judge a person. Its true that "first impression is the last impression", but "To err is human" is also true. You can't just judge your friends at your first site. First give some time to him and then decide whether to kiss or kick their Assss!!!!!!!!

ucancomenshare · #7 (**permalink**) 06-26-2006, 04:01 PM

tht is what i said

sanuanu · #8 (**permalink**) 06-27-2006, 11:16 AM

That means I am no different. Its sad I would like to be differnt from this world. Nevertheless what about you "ishymech" did you get any help from here? If yes, do please share.

ucancomenshare · #9 (**permalink**) 06-27-2006, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by sanuanu

That means I am no different. Its sad I would like to be differnt from this world. Nevertheless what about you "ishymech" did you get any help from here? If yes, do please share.

well ofcourse u are there are many times ..u just cant be same 2 any1 and this goes 4 every1 .....

sanuanu · #10 (**permalink**) 06-28-2006, 07:04 AM

Thank you for that. I will remember your words but I am still waiting for my treasure. I think you just can't say that this person is the one who will be my best friend or something like that and I would treasure that for life time. Its a feeling that comes to you and that friend remain in your life. Whenever I start feeling that this friend will be my treasure, I become nervous and eventualy loss my friend.
Strangeeeeeeeeeeew

ucancomenshare · #11 (**permalink**) 06-28-2006, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by sanuanu

Thank you for that. I will remember your words but I am still waiting for my treasure. I think you just can't say that this person is the one who will be my best friend or something like that and I would treasure that for life time. Its a feeling that comes to you and that friend remain in your life. Whenever I start feeling that this friend will be my treasure, I become nervous and eventualy loss my friend.
Strangeeeeeeeeeeew

well u loose then cause u except a tons may be i don wanna take out any judgement as i don know abt u n wot u r exactly but still best of luck anyway

sanuanu · #12 (**permalink**) 06-28-2006, 03:21 PM

well, You may be correct but I still feel that you can't say about any of the friend that they are going to be your treasure.

ucancomenshare · #13 (**permalink**) 06-28-2006, 08:40 PM

thtas 4 sure

sanuanu · #14 (**permalink**) 06-29-2006, 11:40 AM

Any other complement?

ucancomenshare · #15 (**permalink**) 06-29-2006, 02:22 PM

depends ....