Why do i always love my boyfriends more than they love?

[nnelove]

i've always been loving and giving in a relationship more than my boyfriend. and to be candied i am begining to lost patience and when i dothat i end up putting our relationshp at risk. i don't know what to think anymore because the more i think of it the more i believe i am letting my guy think i need him desparately more than he does for me and when i decide to relent i realise i am gradually loosing him
please help me out

[riakawaii]

i've experienced what you feel right now and it's not really good on our part...first,it's natural to give all your love to someone else because we...i think it's the best way to keep our relationship longer and stronger..but i was wrong then...giving so much love is not enough to hold on to a relationship...i learned we have to love our self first before we can love somebody.....on my experienced, almost felt im dying because i lost him..even i knew to my self that i loved him with all my heart and i almost gave my life to him..but in the end..he dumb me...what an asshole!!!...hehehehe... :D... but right now, i know to my self that i finally rid him and im very happy that he get out in my system..and i know too...i deserve someone who will love me as much as i love him...and having that kind of failure is the best way to become a better person...just take it as challenge in life..

so,dont feel sorry about him...it is his lost not yours..and remember every rain there is always a rainbow....so cheer up girl!!!! you're beautiful...okay!!!

[supressedinsanity]

Well there is a line of thought that says that If you shower too much love on a person then they tend to take it for granted and start treating you like they would treat a regular person.

In this case they say that its good if you dont expect too much from a person while giving affection, because your always going to be dissapointed when the partner does not reciprocate as much as you want him to.

So be a little distant sometimes. Keep some space for yourself.
Give hte other person space too.

[tammy87]

aaawwww why can't people just love and give all they have to each other?
what's the point of loving when there's so much of restrictions to follow

[freakyfreddie]

sigh, tammy tammy, aren't you a little naive to be saying that,
it's never as easy as that, love is sweet, but it's dem complicated too, i'm sure you;ll grow to understand this concept later in life