Is commucnication really needed to keep the friendship alive

[rockyroad]

haha.. ur right.. but then it still relates to the topic thats why posted it..

[peachey]

Yes it does and show that in some case we have no contol or our friends have no control over why the communication stops or drops some...

[rockyroad]

yah.. but dont u hate it when theres nothing u cant do but give in.. and wait... coz u have no control over it..

[peachey]

Yes but then like you ...you did wait and now look how strong the friendship is because all of you keep the faith that things would work out and they did....

[rockyroad]

well, if u look at it that way.. guess.. waiting do have its prize.. wonder how long we will wait.. if things get out of hand.

[peachey]

OH I think if it is a true and healthy friendship will wait till they can get back to you and others...they do not go away forever if it is a good and healthy friendship...

[hilliebillie]

oh well, we all have ideas. and i guess all our ideas are right. anyway, without communication then i guess we dont know what will happen next.. right?? just like my case.. yah, we have no communication for a year.. but after that.. we always get to the point that we do keep in touch... we ever make a move to go to their place and to talk.. that is communication right? just dont know what had happen if we just give up after that.. maybe, our friendship hadnt work it.. if we did otherwise.

well done rocky, well done, after all the problems, i think you did great already

[kelliez]

what kinda topic discussion is this, of coz communication is needed to keep a friendship alive, else?????

it doesn't have to be constant regular communication but it definitely has to be some communication!!!

[tammy87]

lol
i agree with you kelliez
communication's definitely an imporatant part of a friendship

the thing is, with more positive communications, bonding can take place, as for those who don't communicate for a really long period of time, well, the frioendship is not dead, just not as close or as good as before

it's a natural thing

[peachey]

Tammy you are correct. If the communiction is not a postive and good communication how can a person or persons build any type of realtionship or friendship if the communcation does not exist then as you said no bonding.

Bonding in a friendship or realtionship is most important thing to make it work. Other wise i see it as an casual friendship is all.

I find alot of people call friendships when merly just a casual one.