Aaaah! cyber heartbreak!

[supressedinsanity]

Well its nice to see people with an open mind towards cyber friendship or cyber love, but in reality isnt there really more pain than gain?

My experince is that when we are online we tend to focus only on our positive attributes while talking to someone.We bring out those sides of us which we normally dont show people in real life.
Dont you feel that most people online are quite nicer than people that you usually run into in the real world.

Maybe thats why we like cyber friends? Because Human beings, when you get to know them are far from perfect.
And when you do decide to take the relationship to another level, the you realize that your friend actually does have a lot of faults and that you both are simply incompatible with each other.
So heartbreak sets in when we realize that everything isnt as perfect as it seems.

And also all those tiny things that make or break relationships such as being accomodating,helpful etc cannot be judged by just chatting.

So tell me people, am I just being a pessimist or do you feel that we can bring out our true selves online and be honest about our faults instead of everything being a and ending in :( :( .

[sanuanu]

There are people of all types even in real world and in cyber world. Don't forget that they are from real world. They have their thinking like in real world. We like cyber friends coz, people who come on net are seeking friends. Ones who realy love chating on net. Now, one who like chating will chat in a descent way for a time being.
Net buddies are not meant to make more than a fair friendship. When u need to become more than friends beware not many are ready for that. My personal experience says that people on net are realy causuals one who just want to have fun for a day or month only.
When they have time then only they come. To become more than friend one need to give special time to net. Now, people do not have time dear.
They do not have time for it.
So, beware and think before choosing ur type of relation in netsssss.

[panggz]

i don't think the positive stuff about people are the only ones we see online, coz people are different..
like, person1 may like person2 coz she's sweet n innocent, but person3 may not like people like person2 becoz he likes the aggressive ones more..
understand what i'm tryin to say here..?

[supressedinsanity]

Hmmm yeah,
Different people didnt factor into my thinking.
Its a funny world where even Bad people would find someone who likes Bad people :shock: ......

But also what i was saying is...if you meet someone online who is a nice person or one that you like.
Do you feel that this person is the same in real life? I cant help but think that they arent..

[sanuanu]

Bad people get bad and good people get good one. Otherwise theyy wdn't talk.
TAlking about real life and cyber life then my friend it is not easy to judge a person in real life in one or two days. You need to give time to your friends. Even in real life you will not belive people easily would You???
No, you check and then believe. same with cyber people. Most of the people hide their bad face in net and try to be differnt.
You just can't imagine just from this post of mine Whether I am a good person or an evil one. You have to give time and check at your side. 90% people tell lie when talking on net.
but there are some one who likes to be same as they are in their life..
Just you need that eyes to find them

[panggz]

so, what u're sayin is, like, this person you like seems really nice, but when you meet up, turns out to be the psycho-killer whose photos are all over the country coz the cops want her caught.. hehehe..

hey, hey..
i am like this, online or not..
PROMISE..

[supressedinsanity]

Heheheh :D well im sure your not a psycho killer.....but then since this is the net......you would be lying...so you ARE a psycho killer arent you.....and a tricky one too....so im just gonna put on a coat of armour and keep a shotgun handy if im gonna be meeting any online buddies sometime :D :twisted:

[panggz]

Originally Posted by supressedinsanity

well im sure your not a psycho killer.....but then since this is the net......you would be lying...so you ARE a psycho killer arent you.....

unless..
i knew u'd think i was telling you the exact opposite of who i really was, which makes me innocent and not a psycho killer..

[sanuanu]

Originally Posted by panggz

unless..
i knew u'd think i was telling you the exact opposite of who i really was, which makes me innocent and not a psycho killer..

What a counter attack!!!
Good going panggz.

Hmm, but who am I. I belive I am a blackmailer, who is looking for some hot stuffs of celebraties or persons here and trying to know what there bad sides and then I will blackmail you.
Ho ho ho beware of me... wow, wow, wow, woff, woff

[panggz]

Originally Posted by sanuanu

What a counter attack!!!
Good going panggz.

hahaha, thankz..
it reminds me of the movie scooby doo..
daphne does that all the time..

hahahahah, a blackmailer's in the house peepz..!
omg.. :?

[sanuanu]

Yes, I am a blackmailer in the house hi hi hi.
but where is supressedinsanity
I think he is a good guy and not like us.
At least he reminds us who are we...
We are dare devilsssssssss :twisted: :twisted:

[supressedinsanity]

Yeah Im hiding out now that there are serial killers and Blackmailers out here roaming the message boards for new victims.

Whats a poor little lamb like me to do on the big bad NET of wolves.

:D :D :D

[panggz]

actually, i'm more of a big bad bear..
(it's cuter!) hehehe..

[sanuanu]

U know supressedinsanity is saying that he is a lamb which means he is not innocent as per his earlier mail he is like




a big lion
scaring meeeeeeeee

please don't eat meeeeee

[panggz]

yea, and i'm a bear..