What is your idea of what women want from me?

peachey · #1 (**permalink**) 07-21-2006, 02:41 AM

Some one that cares.

A man that will love me for who I am and not for who they want me to be.

A man that will be there in the good times with the bad.

A man that supports me with any thing I do.

viviannepang · #2 (**permalink**) 09-10-2006, 04:06 PM

So if you found a man who have all this attitude and character , would you mind if there is no spark during the first sight of your meeting ?

rockyroad · #3 (**permalink**) 09-11-2006, 07:12 AM

interesting one vivian.. i guess its important that the two of u get along well too...lets hear bout what peachy's going to say

peachey · #4 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 04:46 AM

Frist why would there not be a spark there ...or maybe I not sure what you might want in a man...

I see this as being what I would see...

A spark at the first meeting ....not all the time does not happen..I think when we meet anyone for the first time we take real percautions on what we see say and do.. All of us want to see what happens the frist time...

So question to both of you ..Do you belive in love at frist site???

sanuanu · #5 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 01:11 PM

I finaly believe that love is all above these all things. I mean I personaly won't mind if my partner is not good with me sometimes. I would reallly like if she interuupts my work if she doesn't like it.
Yes, we like people because what they are, not because what we want from them but at the same time we are only humans. We are not perfect. We have some bad sides and good sides.

rockyroad · #6 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 03:15 PM

well.. i dont believe in love at first sight peachey.. maybe like at first sight.. i believe that u only love someone when u know him and accept for who he is.. with all his flaws nad imperfections.. so for me. anu is right, all of us have good sides and bad sides so if we really love someone, we will accept him for who he really is... i believe that if we do love someone, it is no hard for us to do this.. after all... that is love...

humpty · #7 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 03:19 PM

sometimes, love at first sight do happen, rarely though, it happens mostly in hollywood films, with all the romantic slowmo scenes, with the right music, the exchange of a glance and all that mushy mushy stuff lol

sanuanu · #8 (**permalink**) 09-13-2006, 08:15 AM

Hello, we are talking about real life not hollywood movies... but can we do love at first sight with all the music stuffs and romantic scenes.
where there is a will there is a way
Dear.....

rockyroad · #9 (**permalink**) 09-13-2006, 05:14 PM

so anu.. u believe in it?? love at first sight??

with the music and stuff in real life.. lol

sanuanu · #10 (**permalink**) 09-14-2006, 06:21 AM

Ohh, I mean to an extent.
I really look into a girl's eyes when i first meet her and decide that she would be my mate or not.

I believe its first 30 seconds when u can really decide whether that girl is your mate or not.

Just now I had seen a girl whose looks were too caring for me and lovely too but now then I couldn't talk more to her, now I have to go searching her in this town. I think she was the one and I was fool(may be afraid of her) who hadn't really asked her name or address....

so, see i believe in love at first sight and you don't need music and all stuufffs to have it. I mean its ur inner feeling who gives u feeling like you are in a musical beach and hearing to its best.

but you kno, I have a fear of thining 100 times before I can really love her.

humpty · #11 (**permalink**) 09-16-2006, 08:47 AM

30 seconds???/

and you can decide if she's the one for you?? lol
that's a bold claim dude,

even if you find her to be the one after 30 seconds, would she agree with you? i mean, in that 30 seconds, she could be the one screening you out too, so, after 30 seconds and you say she's the one, she's gotta feel the same about you to make it happen,

what i'm saying is, it doesn't happen that way, you don't get to decide on your own, it's gotta be a mutual thing, if those 30 seconds were such deciding factors for you and her, and you both agree on the same thing, well, i call it a miracle, and yes, i guess that qualifies for a love at first sight lol

shiankgp · #12 (**permalink**) 09-16-2006, 09:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by humpty

sometimes, love at first sight do happen, rarely though, it happens mostly in hollywood films, with all the romantic slowmo scenes, with the right music, the exchange of a glance and all that mushy mushy stuff lol

CAn U please stop..................................

shadwell06 · #13 (**permalink**) 10-03-2006, 03:16 PM

why do people keep reverting to love themed films on these chat sites? is it because they have never had love at first site, because they are sat infront of the tv 24/7 watching these sloppy films?

you can tell in 30 seconds, whether or not the person is nice, but it does take time to get to know someone, and a lifetime to find out if you are truely meant to be.

I can't stand someone that can't talk, or listen, preferably both! as that is the only way to make things truely work, but there has also got to be so much of a spark there, otherwise I never feel right in a relationship.

I have also got to feel comfortable in the situation, then the bad times are the really testing time for the relationship, and if you can both get through them together, then it does make the good times great.

there are people like that out there, but I think they are watching the sloppy films instead of looking!! either that or giving stupid answers on these pages!