True and good friends are hard to come by

[panggz]

hahahaa, no, it was supposed to be "not"..
sorry, my bad.. :oops:

hmm..
or, then again, maybe i'd choose the one who invited me first..
i mean, they can't have invited me at the exact same time, right..?
that way it'll be fair for them all..

[sanuanu]

You are confused aren't you?
Now, what if your best of best friends group invited to you late then?????

[panggz]

i'd tell her "i'm sorry, but i have some place else to go to.."..
i haven't got any choice, do i..?
if i already said "yes" to the first ones who invited me, i can't take it back anymore..
it really won't be fair..
there are so many other days to go out with the latter, i just don't want to lose any of them..
so i'd just choose to be fair..

[peachey]

A TRUE FRIEND WOULD UNDERSTAND

Should understand that you have made plans and there will be another time that the two of you can get together and do what ever.

Like frist come ...frist serve...

[sanuanu]

Originally Posted by panggz

so i'd just choose to be fair..

That is wonderful, the answer for which satisfied me. I am sorry if I have asked tooooooo many questions but I think u won't mind, would U?

A TRUE FRIEND WOULD UNDERSTAND

but what if it happens for say 5-6 times????

[panggz]

Originally Posted by peachey

A TRUE FRIEND WOULD UNDERSTAND

Should understand that you have made plans and there will be another time that the two of you can get together and do what ever.

Like frist come ...frist serve...

exactly.. :D

[panggz]

Originally Posted by sanuanu

That is wonderful, the answer for which satisfied me. I am sorry if I have asked tooooooo many questions but I think u won't mind, would U?

i totally understand..

[peachey]

Then panzzg I would take a good look and try to figure out if they were truely a good friend. If they have an attitue like that they may not really be the true friend you thought they were.

And if this is the case this is sad that someone would do that to someone. That would be decitful

[sanuanu]

Sorry but I didn't get you!
Who is doing what to whom and which is the friend who did this thing? What the true friend is supposed not to be doing but they did?
Too much confusion for me, hey is it only me who didn't get you???

[panggz]

uhh, i didn't get it that much either..

did you mean, peachey, that if they got mad at me coz i'd gone out with the other group that they weren't true friends..?
or, did i get you all wrong..?

[peachey]

I belive if there are true friends they would understand.

If it suppose to be a true friend and they are mad because you did not choose them. Then I would wonder are they really a true friend?

[sanuanu]

I got u now but my question was if it happens to ur best friend that he/she always get in on 2nd chance to call u and u r bound to go with other group then how will handle him/her???

[panggz]

that would really really confuse me.. :?
it's a very difficult situation..

[jestuarn]

Well, the question is , does she/he had to be the one calling you over? I mean, if she can't always invite you since you always went to other people, why don't you treat her back for it by inviting her yourself? (Do it more often if you often turn her invites down)

[panggz]

hahaha, yea, can't believe i hadn't thought of that..!