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Sex Buddies Is it acceptable or is it sin? Post your views and opinions here. Should we all have sex buddies or should all those who have sex for fun be called sinners instead.

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Old 04-07-2006, 11:43 PM
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Sex and sins

Sex these days is like going to the shop for a box of candy. But many people that engage in premarital sex don't know what kind of harm they are doing to themselves and others. Sex is meant for within marriage and marriage only! I'll keep you posted on the harmful effects of premarital sex...including adverse effects on your unborn kids in future...
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Old 04-08-2006, 04:27 AM
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With the wide range of topics this is obviously meant to be an OPEN place, not a place to condemn others because of their actions.
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Old 04-08-2006, 05:03 AM
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Ah a conservative (no sex before marriage and it's false unscientific theories)! :twisted: Always a good laugh!
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Old 04-08-2006, 04:07 PM
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Oh, no...condemnation is what this about...this is about enlightenment...
People should be able to express their views openly without any one feeling they are being condemned...Besides, I've hardly made reference to a particular person or name...Just expressing my opinion.
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Old 04-08-2006, 04:08 PM
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whoops, I meant: 'condemnation is NOT what this is about'....
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Old 04-08-2006, 04:39 PM
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Well, I'd like to think I'm a liberal myself.
And hey, every unscientific explanation should have a scientific one, right?
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Old 04-10-2006, 05:33 AM
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the basics of sex theory is...
if u people are ready to have sex..and they are adult....and that can they wht is right and wrong for them...

then there is no Question of sex with anyone...at any age is right or wrong...

i wanna say that...its a activity of 2 people.....
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Old 04-10-2006, 10:42 AM
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still, it still haven't answered the question of sex before marriage being something good...

well, i must say that good or bad, it's up to people to decide, and a lot of people are doing it, some think its good, some bad, some dun even consider opr spend time thinking whether it's good or bad, they just do it when they want it, so, this is where the society is headed i guess, more sex as we move towards the future? more people doing it before marriage? more doing it at a younger age? hhmmmppphhh

that's the future boys and girls, what ya think?
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Old 04-10-2006, 02:32 PM
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Yeah, the future does look bleak, doesn't it? But you're right, everybody is free to do what they want and make choices that suit them. All I'm saying is even though peole have these freedoms, they should aware of the adverse consequences of their actions both to themselves and the future generation to come...
I'm sure everyone agrees?
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Old 04-10-2006, 02:39 PM
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ya i agree with u....
its has a great impact on a generatin to come....

with these will always be there in our socity....and we have handle with care...

if two personn involved are matured enougy..the impact on future can be minimize...
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Old 04-10-2006, 03:02 PM
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That's right Leo, but maturity is not enough, people need to be educated and must be well equipped morally and spiritually, don't you think?
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Old 04-10-2006, 10:37 PM
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Educated about sex is right... that's why we need sex education in school.

Morally? every religion, cult, culture, and every generation have their own morals.. so who's to follow? sex is not about morals, it's a private matter between partners, and no self appointed moralists should 'police' the wonder of sex.

Spiritual? what is it? can someone please tell me what spiritual is?? it's a big word that sounds nice but have no meaning really. Also, spiritual means different things to different people.
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Old 04-11-2006, 05:10 AM
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Cool u are taking things in a wrong direction....
here we are talking abt sex....
So....wht ever word is used is in a context of sex....

its good u have added to it..
few priciples are there in sex...which one has to follow..
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Old 05-31-2006, 05:15 PM
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Yeah I agree worth summie and leo. I think the sex is something that the two partners share like spend out of the sexual energy due to the physical attraction of the partners but if there is not a spiritual attachment of them both the relationship is not a worth one I guess. Yeah cool for me the word spiritually is on its right place here cuz if you do not have both your soul and body into the sex you do not have enough feelings for the person you love. And for the sex before marriage well I am against the teens to have sex but after that it is up to the people, it depends on what age you think you will be ready to marry and depends if you have met the right person in your life.
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Old 06-04-2006, 03:11 AM
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dear,
i think what you are bble to justify yourself as right is right either it is sex or smoking or drinking bcoz. if you not may be you will face guilty concious. so enjoy life if you don't belive in doing sex before marriage don't do that , do what you like , just live your life before it ends....



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