When a friend sleeps with another friend's boyfriend

[cherryq]

One of my best friends recently slept with another friends boyfriend and I dont really know what to do. The fact that very few people know and she told me in confidence pretty much garuntees that if I tell my other friend she's going to know that it was me and be pretty damn pissed. But if that was me and one of my friends knew about my boyfriend cheating I'd expect them to tell me. And if I found out they'd be hearing about it forever after!!!

One way or the other I'm hurting some one... should I tell or just keep my mouth shut?

[noodlebunny]

just don't say anything and if she tells someone else who tells others, she may think it is you but just tell her you never said anything because she trusted you and just stay out of it.

[callpappy]

cherryq, :idea:
I had to think long and hard about that question,so here's an answere that I hope that werks. :o First let me explain this,My wifes girl friend,slept
with my wifes husband a few months back.And just out of the blue,she, :shock: (my wife) said if she ever cought,her ole man doing such shit, she would cut his nutz off and sew him up in the sheet,then set the bed on fire,with him in it. :twisted:
So to tell ya I,wouldn't say anything to her, :shock: if your friend's name is,Dottie.
If not go for it,all that could happen is you lose a friend.

My problem, :oops:
means ,I have to wait for the divorce to tell her, or lose a set of nutz,house,new bed,and my mind. Good thing she doesn't know my handle 8) And it's late night

[kowiamay]

Maybe you could tell your friend that she needs to talk to the girl who's boyfriend she slept with. This is a pretty big issue, and you can't just let it go. Your friend told you for a reason. She probably feels guilty, and needs to make things right. If she doesn't feel guilty, then she's a real creep. If that's the case, tell her that you're going to the other friend with your information. It's not fair for your other friend to be in the dark about this.