Hidden love for a friend

[girlyz]

My friend confess this to me last day. She told me that she love secretly her best friend, but her friend has another love and she is very jelous on that girl. My friend decided not to talk to her friend anymore,but that guy find a way to talk to her. There friendship really is at stake right now.

[natalieme]

So complicated a thing huh..well advice your friend to keep talking to that boy she has for a best friend no matter of his girlfriend. She do not have a reason to ignore him just because he has a girlfriend. I also liked one guy more then just a friend but I realized I better have him for a friend because I can see he will be more happy with other type of girls. Friends have to support each other and it happens when you have a friend from the opposite sex to feel something for him but better tell your friend she do not need to be jealous because of that boy relationship, she better save their friendship because that guy will go maybe trough many other relationships but only his best friends will be always there for him to advise him in the hard moments.

[shadwell06]

I have been in that situation, and the only way your friend can over come it is either by ending things, or just not seeing him with the other girl around. which is basically impossible to do.

I don't think you can totally become friends properly again after telling someone how you feel, and I am sure he will sence something is up.

well it is nearly 11 years since I told my best friend I love her, and seen her go out with worse people, it does screw you up inside, knowing that the other person doesn't feel the same.

but on the other hand, it vary rarely does happen, that he might notice that really he doesn't fancy the other girl, it was her that he has wanted all the time.

it is a very difficult one, tell her to tread carefully, and maybe a split while she sorts her feelings for him is what is called for

[panggz]

if she feels that the guy still is interested in being friends with her even after her little confession, i think they should stay friends..
it won't be fair for the guy if they stopped being friends..

but, hey, this is just an opinion, ok..?
she should still do as she pleases and what she thinks is best..

[margiels467]

well,tell to your friend if she has a courage to tell about her feelin to that guy better tell it now